fuck this job.com

Tell the truth and come what may. The good will prevail. Trust in that. And trust in yourself. Take heart, be brave, move forward - and all will be well. Work hard, play hard and have fun forever. There is no looking back - ever. You are what you are. If you have done nothing in preparing yourself and you think you are probably going to lose - you probably will. If you have worked to the best of your knowledge and ability and you think you think you are going to win - you probably will. Even if you lose you will do so with a classic Van Halen song in your heart and a smile on your face.

Go Be Happy. Fuck it.

Little Nicky

I don't consider myself sexist. I don't really even know what that means. It means different things to different people. I don't consider any woman a brainless toy because she is attractive. Nor do I consider any woman a smart, productive worker just because she is not attractive. It's simple: I am a man, I love women. Nothing is going to change that. They are fascinating creatures in their own right and they are some of the most fascinating human beings. Besides, I know I probably make it sound like I do, but I don't get every woman I want. Most of the time I have to settle for only the women who want me. Women can be every bit as "sexist" as men. The trick to the whole thing, I think, is mutual attraction. My "sexist" self and my "sexist" partners are all in on it together. Like the song says, "Everybody wants some! I want some too! Everybody wants some!" I always work with the ones who most definitely want some. We are like-minded. It may not be right all the way around, but it is what it is and we take advantage of it whenever we like-minded strangers meet.

I agree with you; some women who are not physically attractive are some of the most beautiful people one might ever meet. On the other hand, I've met a lot of beauties who were pretty ugly. I've met a lot of beauties who were actually beautiful. I've met a lot of uglies who were even uglier when I got to know them. Like you say, in so many words, it all depends on what is on the inside. But what we have to remember about that is the fact that what is on the inside will eventually come out. What is on the inside - shows on the outside.

I do in fact consider people, men and women alike, in terms of how good they look, but not on how good looking they are. My case in point, I know a woman who I became fast friends with years ago. We are still good friends to this day. We are like-minded in many ways. We were professionals when we worked together and we behaved like professionals. Physically speaking, she was uglier than a tree sloth, but you could never tell. She knows how to dress, how to act and how to take care of herself. No one notices the fact that she is not attractive. They are to busy paying attention when she speaks because she knows how to hook a listener and she knows how to give direction and orders and she knows what it means to be a boss. She knows what she is talking about and what she is doing and everything goes right whenever she is around. Had I not considered her for placement where we worked based on how good looking she was, I would never have had the great assistant I had for five years, and the company would never have promoted her to my position when I left them. She is still working there to this day and is still kicking ass all over the place.

You may recall a girl I talked about before in this blog, I believe I called her, Dingbat. Dingbat was a gorgeous blonde. She was 5'7", large breasted, very physically fit, big blue eyes... you get the idea. Did I give her special priviledges because she was physically attractive to the point of making the boys cream their jeans whenever she walked past? Hell, no! I assigned myself to the task of being the main instrument in getting her terminated because she was a complete fucking idiot - and a lazy, bossy, out-of-control little blonde, bimbo, busy-bodied gossip monger type idiot at that. I could have kept her around and played with her. If my guess is right, and it usually is about these things, I could have eventually gotten her to get funny with me in the back of my car. I think my point is made.

Yes, surround yourself, whenever possible, with the most beautiful people you can find. When you come home after a hard day's work and that boyfriend, husband, wife or girlfriend are sprawled out on the couch sippin' a beer and waiting for a handout - give them three days and no more to get their shit together and get moving or get the fuck out. When employees refuse to get their shit together and get with the program - get rid of them or go complain on their asses and make that worthless manager do something about them. I have no time for ugly people. Only the best will do. And, yes, part of my decision making process involves judging the way they look.

There is nothing wrong or "sexist" about enjoying the sight of a beautiful woman. But, if it makes you feel any better, if I must do business with the gorgeous creature I treat her just like I would anyone else, male or female, pretty or ugly. When it comes to the job, there are only two kinds of people, the can-do people and the can't-do/won't-do people. Good lookin' or not, sweetheart, if you can't or won't do the job - you're goin' down the fuckin' road.

Little Nicky

You must not be attractive if you are offended by that comment. Well scratch that you ARENT because I have seen your picture...and you arent anything to write home about. 'some of the most ugly people are the most beautiful'? Come on, who are you kidding. Get over yourself.

I'm wondering how the hell anyone here has seen my picture, unless I have a stalker. Hey buddy, this isn't hotornot.com, ok? I didn't ask for your opinion. Everyone I know says I'm attractive; I don't need some psycho's point of view. The point I was trying to make is that people need to be more focused on who a person IS than what he/she looks like. I don't see where that's a bad thing.